Feeling Like a Hypochondriac

Lately, I've been feeling extremely run down and on the verge of the flu. Hubby had the flu (or at least flu-like symptoms) most of last week. He rarely gets sick so it is obvious when he isn't feeling well. On the other hand, I feel like it's always something with me. I never felt this way when I was dancing, but I will admit I was tired a lot. When I was young it was easy to just keep going. My energy is not what it used to be. Hubby thinks I'm being lazy.
Tonight I went to the doctor after work. I had an appointment to follow up with the counseling she had recommended. I feel like my doctor thinks I'm a depressed person. She seems to want me on antidepressants. My counselor doesn't think I need them. So what gives? Anyway, I digress. I think my doctor thinks I am a hypochondriac because I don't have a lot of physical signs of being sick yet I don't feel well.

Here is a list of what I have been diagnosed with over the years (by different doctors in some cases):

~Chronic EBV Infection
~Migraine
~Hypothyroidism
~IBS
~Chronic Sinusitis

Now, I think my biggest problems are the EBV, migraine, and IBS. I've got the migraine and IBS somewhat under control. What I think I am losing control of is the EBV. My current doctor is not on board with EBV being a "real ailment." Because of this I feel like a burden half the time when I go in. I've told her I have this and her response was just pretty much this: "oh yea, that's CFS. Same thing. Save difference. You just feel tired all the time and it just sucks to be you."
That's a shitty response from a medical professional. I told her EBV and CFS are not the same and she said they are. That's old news. EBV appears in a blood test where CFS does not. That means they are not the same thing. Incidentally, I don't think that one is more significant than the other; I just think it is naive for a doctor to lump them as the same when they are not. I think I am going to see about going back to the doc that originally diagnosed me with the EBV and maybe get retested.
I've been feeling fluish, but I didn't have a fever tonight like I expected to. I thought for sure I did--I was feeling hot and cold all day today. My temperature was low--just 97º. The only thing I can think of now is the EBV is doing this. My glands feel swollen, but throat is a little sore, I ache, and I'm tired; but it doesn't seem to be the flu. It's frustrating!

OK. Rant over. :)